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Why don’t some families celebrate Halloween?

2 min read Answered by the Neighbor Radio team Neighbor review in progress Updated

Usually it’s about faith. Some Christians feel Halloween’s focus on death, spirits and fear clashes with what they believe. Jehovah’s Witnesses don’t celebrate it, and many Muslim and Orthodox Jewish families don’t either. Plenty of religious families love it. A kid who skips trick-or-treating isn’t judging yours. Their family just draws the line in a different place.

1 · MindWhat people believe, and how they know

Halloween means “All Hallows’ Eve,” the night before All Saints’ Day on November 1, when many Christians honor the saints. Some of its customs also trace back to Samhain, a Celtic festival marking the end of the harvest. Over time it became mostly a night of costumes and candy.

October 31 is also Reformation Day. Many Protestants remember that Martin Luther posted his 95 Theses that day in 1517. Some churches host “trunk-or-treat” nights or harvest festivals instead, so kids still get candy without the scary parts.

What each tradition or community says

Many Christians who celebrate

It’s a fun night to meet neighbors. Some even see laughing at skeletons as a sign of faith: death doesn’t get the last word.

Christians who don’t

Ephesians 5:11 says to have nothing to do with the works of darkness. Some families feel that ghosts, witches and gore don’t fit.

Jehovah’s Witnesses

They don’t celebrate Halloween, birthdays or most holidays, because they believe those customs have roots that don’t honor God.

Many Muslims

It isn’t an Islamic holiday, so many families skip it. Others let kids join in for fun, without any religious meaning.

Many Orthodox Jews

It isn’t a Jewish holiday, and traditional Jewish law discourages adopting other religions’ customs.

2 · HeartWhat it feels like

Being the only kid in class without a costume can feel lonely. Being the only parent saying no can feel lonely too.

And families who do celebrate sometimes worry that the house with the dark porch light thinks they’re doing something evil. Usually nobody is thinking that hard about anybody else.

Every street has a few porch lights that stay off on October 31st. That’s not a verdict on the rest of us. It’s just a family keeping its own calendar.Neighbor Radio

3 · HandsHow to be a good neighbor

If a neighbor kid doesn’t trick-or-treat, invite them to something else that week, like a fall cookout or a pumpkin patch trip. Don’t push the costume party. At school, offer non-costume options so every kid can join. And if your porch light is off, nobody needs an explanation.

This weekIf your family doesn’t celebrate Halloween, bring a fall treat to a neighbor who does. If you do, invite a non-celebrating family to something else.

TimelineWhere this fits

More than 15,000 years ago: Native peoples in North AmericaAbout 2000 BC: Abraham answers God's callAbout 1500 BC: The Rig VedaAbout 1450 BC: The Exodus and the Torah at SinaiAbout 500 BC: The Buddha teachesAbout 400 BC to AD 200: The Bhagavad GitaAbout 250 BC: Emperor AshokaAbout 6 BC: Jesus is bornAbout AD 30: Jesus' death and resurrectionAD 610: The Qur'an's revelation beginsAD 622: The Hijra1469: Guru Nanak is born1699: The Khalsa is founded1787: No religious test for office1791: The First Amendment1820: The First VisionApril 6, 1830: The Church is organized1965: Immigration and Nationality Act1978: American Indian Religious Freedom Act2023–24: 29 percent unaffiliated 1517: The Reformation begins

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SourcesWhere it is in the scriptures

New Testament

Plain wordsWhat do these words mean?

Orthodox
For Christians: the Eastern Orthodox churches (Greek, Russian, Ethiopian and others). For Jews: the most traditional branch of Judaism. The word means “right belief.”
Protestant
Christian churches that came from the Reformation in the 1500s, like Lutheran, Baptist, Methodist and many others.

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Four questions to take with you

From Jesus' story of the Good Samaritan, about the stranger who stopped to help. We call it the Samaritan Test.

  1. Did they see? Or look right past?
  2. Did they stop? Even when it was inconvenient?
  3. Did it cost them? Time, money, comfort, reputation?
  4. Did they treat the person like a person? Not like a label?

Try it on: when another family’s rules are stricter than yours, do you assume they’re judging you?

Quick questions

Is it okay to invite a friend who doesn’t celebrate?

Yes. Just make it easy to say no, and invite them to something else too.

Is Halloween a religious holiday?

It began as the eve of a Christian feast day, with older harvest customs mixed in. Today most people treat it as a cultural holiday.

Do Jehovah’s Witnesses celebrate birthdays?

No. They celebrate weddings and anniversaries, but not birthdays or most holidays.

Sources and research
  1. Ephesians 5:11 (World English Bible)
  2. Encyclopaedia Britannica: Halloween
  3. JW.org: Why don't Jehovah's Witnesses celebrate certain holidays?
How this answer was made

Written in plain words by the Neighbor Radio team. Each faith's and community's section is checked by someone from that faith or community. Until then, this page says so. Spot something wrong? Tell us. We read every note and fix mistakes.

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